When does thinking become overthinking?

 how to tell the difference

There's a big difference between thinking something through and getting stuck in your own thoughts. 

But when you are in it, it's hard to tell which one you are doing. 

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What thinking looks like

Thinking is useful. It helps you:

  • understand all the available options
  • weigh things up 
  • move towards a decision, prepared

Thinking feels:

  • calm 
  • focused 
  • productive
  • purposeful
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What overthinking looks like

Overthinking feels very different.  Your brain will be:

  • going over the same thoughts again and again
  • imagining every possible outcome 
  • second guessing everything
  • trying to control the uncontrollable

It feels:

  • heavy
  • messy
  • repetitive
  • stuck
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The key difference

Thinking will lead somewhere. Overthinking loops round and round. 

a quick test

'Have I already thought about this?' If the answer is yes, many times, you are looping and overthinking. 

HOW TO BREAK THE LOOP

The thoughts may be perfectly valid, but overthinking is not constructive. You don't need more time to think about it. You need something to interrupt the process. 

Try writing it down, saying it out loud or talking it through with a friend. 

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why talking helps

We have all needed help, only to realise we knew the answer as soon as we asked the question out loud.  Thoughts make more sense when they leave our head. 

When you say them out loud, you:

  • naturally structure your thoughts  
  • hear what makes sense
  • spot what doesn't make sense
  • formulate the next step easily
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Final thought

Thinking keeps you moving forward. 

Overthinking keeps you stuck.

If you are going round and round in circles, it's time to get those thoughts out of your head. 

That's exactly what Hippo Brain is built for.